One way to become an ally to BIPOC communities is by listening and learning from their experiences. In addition, talking and asking about racial diversity with BIPOC communities is also important. One of the best things we can do is practice how to appropriately and respectfully bring up these subjects.
Here are some examples of how to respectfully talk about race:
- I don’t understand what BIPOC stands for. Do you mind explaining that to me?
- I remember you mentioning you are from Brazil. I’d love to learn more about that culture. Do you mind telling me more about it?
- I really enjoyed the egg rolls that you brought to the party. Is that a family recipe?
Sometimes we don’t know how to approach the subject because we are afraid of offending someone or saying the wrong thing. If you are feeling this way, you are not alone! Asking questions and talking about race can be difficult. That’s why being open and honest and making some mistakes are part of the process. In the end we are all learning, and that’s a wonderful thing. Check out Race Scenario #5 to apply what we just learned!
Race Scenario #5
In groups of four or five, read the following phrases. These statements and questions are an attempt to try and talk about race, however they are not worded the best. As a group, decide a better way of phrasing these statements and questions.
- You don’t look like you’re from here. Where are you from?
- Why does your culture wear funny clothing?
- I don’t understand racism. Can you tell me about it?
- Do people judge you because of your race?
- Is it true that [stereotype] is a part of your culture?
Download Learn More About: Talking About Race (English) here.
Download Learn More About: Talking About Race (Spanish) here.